With a third to a half of all marriages ending in divorce, and with over 40% of people reporting unhappiness in their marriages, it is clear that most of us need better education about what it takes to maintain a happy relationship. 

Dr. John Gottman, renowned psycholog...

Marriage is not about happiness, but growth.

The key to becoming a truly successful couple is to take action and expand your comfort zone. Marriage is what Dr. David Schnarch, author of Passionate Marriage, calls a “Human Growth Machine.” Eli Finkel, author of The All-o...

My recent workshop at the Priory Spirituality Center was a success, based on participants' evaluations.

The workshop was adapted from Desmond and Mpho Tuto's book "The book of forgiving", 2015. The book provides 4 steps towards forgiveness: telling the story, naming the...

Hello! My name is Joseli Alves-Dunkerson, psychotherapist, and my work revolves around relationships, intimacy, sexual health and sex education.

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