Open Relationships

Open Relationships & Polyamory

 

Are you and/or your partner contemplating opening your relationship? AASECT Certified Sex Therapist listening to couples intimacy issues and answering their questions. Open relationships and polyamory may also be discussed.

Are you aware of what it takes to make it successful? Are you ready for this big change? Or are you already in an open relationship and would like to work on some unintended issues? Are you considering polyamory?

The concept of an open relationship has been recognized since the 1970s and has evolved over time. There has been a grown interest in recent years. An open relationship is an intimate relationship that is consensually non-monogamous, i.e., any type of romantic relationship (dating, marriage, etc.) where one or more parties have permission to be romantically or sexually involved with people outside of the relationship. It differs from the traditional closed, or monogamous, type of relationships.

There are also different forms of open relationships. For example, polyamory refers to a relationship where there is a primary emotional and intimate relationship between two partners, who agree to at least the possibility of sexual or emotional intimacy with other people.

Open relationships can work for some people but not for others. It takes planning, awareness, and ample communication. Lack of a firm agreement and jealousy issues are common unfortunate occurrences in open relationships. If you want to see if open relationships are for you, please be intentional and learn and prepare for it. As with many things in life, the lack of effective planning can be disastrous.

We can help you go through the learning and preparation for opening your relationship, as well as reflect on any issues you might be facing in a current open relationship.

To start, please do the following:

  1. Check our therapists’ profiles to choose the one that would be a good fit for you.  
  2. Set up an appointment with the therapist you chose
  3. Start counseling, and learn more about open relationships!

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